Loss of Family Reputation

A woman can get away by paying Rs. 10000


Shame on Indian laws and justice ! But, that’s real India!

 A woman can get away by paying only Rs. 10,000 ($145) for a serious offence of fooling the court and seeking non-admissable remdy. There is no consideration that she has even destroyed a man’s life.  This is banana justice of a banana republic.

Had it been any man doing the same, the entire world have been out to demand death penalty for him. Down with Indian laws that openly promote misuse by women. Shame once again. This news item was published at:


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क्या इस ’अबला नारी’ पर कोई कानून वाला कार्यवाही करने की हिम्मत करेगा ?

मोहतरमा पहले से ही शादी-शुदा थी और फिर भी एक ’नया बकरा’ हलाल करने निकल पड़ी । आज यह बहुत ही आम बात है, जिसमें महिलाएं एक से अधिक शादियां कर रही हैं । वो भी बिना पूर्व तलाक लिये हुये । सबसे महत्वपूर्ण बात यह है कि भारत के कानून (आई.पी.सी.) में ऐसी महिला अपराधियों को सजा देने का कोई प्राविधान नहीं है । अलबत्ता, इस महिला अपराधी के ’नये पति’ को सजा का प्राविधान जरूर है । अब कपट करे ’अबला महिला’ और सजा पाये बेचारा ’निर्दोष पुरुष’ । न पुलिस, न अदालते और न समाज – ऐसी महिला अपराधियों को कोई सजा दिलवाने के लिये पहल नहीं करता ।


आन्घ्र प्रदेश के महिला आयोग की अध्यक्ष ने माना की आई.पी.सी. की धारा 498ए का दुरुपयोग किया जा रहा है

अब आन्घ्र प्रदेश के महिला आयोग की अध्यक्ष ने माना की पतियों को आर्थिक और सामाजिक रूप से मार गिराने के लिये धड़ल्ले से आई.पी.सी. की धारा 498ए का दुरुपयोग किया जा रहा है । यद्यपि वो इसका ठीकरा वकीलों और पुलिस वालो के सिर फोड़ रही हैं पर सांच को आंच नहीं लगती । यह शुरुवात है । अभी तो सच बहुत से मंचों से स्वीकारा जाना बाकी है । पर दर्द यही है कि तब तक बहुत से निर्दोष पुरुषों और उनके परिवारों को मौत की नींद सुला चुका होगा ।    बतातें चले की अभी हाल ही में दिल्ली प्रदेश के महिला आयोग की अयोग की अपनी ही रिपोर्ट में बलात्कार के आधे से अधिक मामले फर्जी पाये गये थे ।


Harassed husbands find an ally in Women’s Commission chief


By Rupam Jain  in Hyderabad  : Sep 28 2014 : The Times of India (Hyderabad)

We recently brought to fore the fact that harassed husbands are a sad and silent reality in the city. But now, the beleaguered husbands have finally found a ray of hope in AP Women’s Commission chairperson, Tripurana Venkata Ratnam, who has stated that “Section 498A, was being misinterpret ed“. Pointing at the rise in cases of `additional dowry harassment’ being clubbed with Section 498 A, Tripurana said, “Petitioners are adding dowry harassment and are including the names of in-laws and other persons in the family , which is leading to arrests and separation of the couples, without giving any scope for reconciliation.“ Speaking to Hyderabad Times about the misinterpretation of Section 498A, Tripurana Venkata Raman clarifies that “not all women know the law“ and are being misguided. “We received about 1,300 cases last year and I can tell you that 100% of the petitioners had filed cases of `additional dowry harassment’ while clubbing it with Section 498A. The Dowry Prohibition Act, 1961 was enacted to prevent dowry system and the Act defined punishment for giving or taking dowry . But, due to lack of awareness, some people are misusing Section 498A,“ says Ratnam, who feels the fault lies with lawyers and Police.

“We need to understand that it is not really the women (petitioners) who are at fault. Not all women would know the laws and what it entails. It is the advocates or cops who advise women to file a case of 498A tagging the `additional dowry harassment’ which is not read in the Section!“ explains Ratnam, further adding, “This is being done because Section 498A attracts criminal punishment and the cops jump into arresting not just the husband, but also the family members of the husband. This is incorrect. It eventually leads to break up of marriages.“

Sangi*, a mid-30 professional battling 498A charges, is relieved at the thought of having a lady make the above statement.“She (chairperson) is absolutely correct. If a woman is filing a case of `additional dowry’, she is as much at fault of giving dowry as her in-laws, who took dowry .Moreover, lawyers advise women to add Section 498A because it is pro-women. All she needs is a marriage certificate to walk into the police station and say she has been harassed mentally , if not physically . My wife, in her complaint had stated that I would beat her with wooden sticks and belts and also accused that my family had harassed her for dowry , even though we lived separately . I am glad the APWC chairperson has made such a statement. Let’s hope it helps the innocent,“ opines Sangi.

The discussion however, does not really end here. Balaji Vadera, senior advocate, AP High Court, says the law is being used as a tool for extorting money from the husbands. “In AP , Section 498A was made compoundable (i.e, case can be withdrawn with a compromise). Advocates advise women to add `dowry harassment’ in their complaint, so it makes for a stronger case as well as humiliate the husband’s family . I have had many cases where women and their lawyers used Section 498A to extort money from the husband.“ He, however, adds a disclaimer, saying, “I am not blaming all women for misusing the Section, but at least 30% of women do it.“

And extortion is a reality in most cases. Sangi shares, “My wife’s advocate approached my lawyer demanding `2 crore as a full and final settlement, out of which, he was admittedly getting a cut of 30%. My wife’s lawyer promised a bribe of 5% share to my lawyer asking him to misguide me on this case. My lawyer was basically asked to stay shut and not help me in any way , in return for some money .He was also told that I would lose the case anyway , so it’s better that he makes some money . I had to change my lawyer when I found out. There are so many things that need to be looked into, so that the Section is not misused.“

Thirty-six-year-old Sukumar* fought a battle for six years, after being charged under Section 489A, before being acquitted just four months back. “In the last six years, I have lost everything -job, family, my daughter, money and peace. My wife had pressed “harassment charges“ against me when she went to the police station in 2009.The cops directed her to a lawyer who made a case of 498A. Every time we met, her lawyer would suggest a “compromise“ of `50 lakh to `1 crore. I did not budge because I wanted to fight. So, a year later, they added “dowry harassment“ and “domestic violence“ to her original charge. After a long fight, I managed to prove the charges wrong, but it wasn’t a cakewalk.Fact is, there’s lots of money involved as the case keeps dragging.“

(Names have been changed on request)

शादी से मुक्त करने की कीमत करोड़ों में लेने का फलता – फूलता व्यापार

अब तो महिला वकीलों ने भी माना की दहेज कानूनों और महिला कानूनों की धमकी देकर तालाक के लिये ज्यादा रकम वसूलने का व्यवसाय खूब फल-फूल रहा है । अब बात दो – तीन लाख की नहीं रही । पचास लाख और सौदे करोड़ों रुपये में भी पटाने की मार्केटिंग बकायाद कानूनों के दुरुपयोग की धमकी के साथ की जा रही है । कुछ दिनों में एम.बी.ए. की एक खेप इस काम के लिये विषेशरूप से बाजार में आ जाये तो कोई अजरज नहीं होगा । देखिये टाइम्स आफ इण्डिया की यह खबर ।


BHOPAL: Some months ago, Divyendu, 28 (name changed) was struggling with his unsuccessful marriage and wanted a divorce. Now, he faces a dowry harassment charge and an extremely difficult task of arranging Rs 15 lakh. His wife has threatened to ruin his life and the only way he can save himself is by arranging the huge amount for divorce. Rs 75 lakh was the price another guy had to pay to his wife to free himself from the marriage ties and the relationship that was left only for namesake.

These are some of the many cases that have come to family court for hearing where the males were being forced to pay a huge amount only to get divorce.

Atul, 30 (name changed), an engineer by profession could take divorce from his fitness trainer wife only after giving Rs 15 lakh along with a pact of life-long maintenance of child. She said yes for the divorce only after taking the money. In another case, the girl has asked for Rs 1 crore in lieu of divorce. Case is still going on in the family court as it is nearly impossible for the boy’s side to pay such a huge amount.

“This has become a sort of trend. Earlier the daughter in laws of medium-class family would ask for Rs 2 lakh to 3 lakh at the time of separation but now they demand nothing less than Rs 25 to 50 lakh. Some even go to the extent of threatening husbands of putting cases of domestic violence and dowry for extracting money. Boys are actually blackmailed nowadays,” said Sangeeta Moharir, a lawyer at Bhopal district court.

“In genuine cases, the girl herself wants to get free as soon as possible so money hardly matters for them. But in cases where extracting money is the sole purpose, girls demand huge compensation from the boys as a price of their freedom,” Sangeeta added.

“In around 50% of the cases, the boy agrees to her demands as he is left with not much choice. Any guy would prefer paying some money than facing some more criminal cases against him. Girls often misuse this situation and laws to their advantage and extract maximum money from husbands, “said Noorunnisa Khan, a senior counsellor at family court in Bhopal.

महिला आयोग ने अपनी रिपोर्ट में माना की बलात्कार की आधी घटनाएं फर्जी !

अब भी सबूत चाहिये की महिलाएं फर्जी मुकदमें दर्ज कराती हैं ? ऐसी महिलाओं को सजा क्यों नहीं ?

अब भी सबूत चाहिये की महिलाएं फर्जी मुकदमें दर्ज कराती हैं ? ऐसी महिलाओं को सजा क्यों नहीं ?

बलात्कार के फर्जी मुकदमें में फसानें की धमकी देकर अवैध वसूली

टाइम्स आफ इण्डिया. जयपुर. 14.09.2014

टाइम्स आफ इण्डिया. जयपुर. 21.09.2014

भारत में बाकायदा बलात्कार के फर्जी मुकदमें दर्ज कराने का व्यापार चल रहा है । दिल्ली पुलिस हो, या उत्तर प्रदेश पुलिस या जयपुर पुलिस सभी जगह यह माना गया है कि हाल के वर्षों में बलात्कार की फर्जी रिर्पोट दर्ज कराने के मामलों में अशातीत इजाफा हुआ है । ऐसे में निर्दोष पुरुषों को फंसाने में जो लोग शामिल हैं उनका पुरसाहाल लेने में की न तो सरकारों को कोई फिक्र है और न ही अदालतों को । बिना सबूत, गवाह और जांच के ही पुरूष को सिर्फ धोखेबाज महिला की गवाही पर ही गिरफ्तार कर जेल भेज दिया जाता है । धन के साथ ही उसकी समाजिक प्रतिष्ठा और पारिवारिक जीवन की भी हानि होती है । दस – बीस साल के अदालती भूलभुलैया के बाद यदि वह निर्दोष पुरुष मुकदमा जीत भी जाये तो क्या उसका सम्मान वापस दिलाय जा सकता है ? क्या फर्जी और झूठे मुकदमें दर्ज कराने वाली कुटिल महिलाओं को सजा मिलने का कोई कानून नहीं होना चाहिये ? ’मर्द का दर्द’ किसी ने समझा नहीं और सबने यह मान लिय कि मर्द को दर्द नहीं होता । आज फर्जी और बदले की भावना के लिखाये गये लाखों मुकदमों का दर्द देश के लाखों पुरुष भुगत रहे हैं । उनके साथ ही उनके पूरे परिवार जिसमें माता, बहन और अन्य रिश्तेदार भी शामिल हैं वो भी इस दंश के साथ घुट-घुटकर जीने को मजबूर हैं । पर वसूली के लिये झूठे मुकदमें दर्ज कराने वाली महिलाएं प्रतिदिन अपने नये शिकार की तलाश में खुले आम घूम रही हैं